Topic Idea: Relationship Ultimatums
Randy Lane • December 4, 2011
Daniel Radcliffe (Harry Potter) has been given an ultimatum by his girlfriend of two years to “be a fully-functioning human being around the house”. She is giving him two years to learn how to cook and keep his house clean. Read more here.
Set Up Ideas:
- Do relationship ultimatums really work? Does the person who changes ultimately resent their partner for the change? Or just change for a short period of time and then revert to their original habits?
- Solicit for listener calls on ultimatums they have been given and how they went.
- Do you still have any habits beaten into you from an ex that you haven’t been with in years?
- Add audio clips or music beds from Harry Potter that can add dynamics to the segment.
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