Topic Idea: 35 Brutally Honest Reasons Women Say No to Sex
Randy Lane • February 5, 2012
Women often give excuses for why they don’t want to have sex. Maybe it’s something the man did, or something we did. This writer for The Stir asked women the real reason they say no to sex. Read the surprising list of reasons here.
Set Up Ideas
- Ask listeners (and share yourself if your spouse doesn’t listen to your show): What excuses do you use? What about your mate – do they always have an excuse to not do it with you? What is your ‘go to’ excuse you use to get out of sex?
- What is the worst excuse you ever used, or ever heard?
- Replicate this study by asking listeners to admit the real reasons they turn down sex (not the excuses, but the truth).
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