Topic Idea: Should Ex-Girlfriends Get Visitation Rights With The Kids?
Randy Lane • November 4, 2012
This Babble.com bloggers talks about convincing her ex-boyfriend of one year to let her have “visitation rights” with his two kids, who she was very close to. Read the story here, and use it as a listener email to launch the topic.
Setup Ideas:
- If you date someone long-term, should you get visitation rights after the breakup? Set up a debate to explore the pros and cons.
- How soon should you introduce a girlfriend or boyfriend to your kids? Play “five calls says it all” to determine the answer.
- Would you be okay with dating someone who lets their ex (but not the biological parent) spend time with the kids?
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