Listener Email: Snooping Through Texts

Randy Lane • November 25, 2012

This email to TresSugar.com shares a juicy dilemma from a girl who snooped through her boyfriend’s (of eight years) phone. After finding intimate (but not racy) texts between him and a girl, and calling the girl to get a vague description of their relationship, she is confused.


Read the email here and use it for your relationship content or ‘Group Therapy’ segment.

Setup Ideas: 6497720753_fbaea0598e.jpg

  • Is snooping (through your partner’s drawers, phone, computer, car, etc.) ever okay? For example, snooping for the sake of being nosy is not okay, but snooping because you know your partner is cheating is acceptable. Discuss.

 

  • Ask listeners: “What did you find the last time you snooped on your partner?”

 

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